In a Stunning Reversal
Jay was offered the Vermont job up in Lyndon near St. Johnsbury. We discussed it. He's going to accept.
He asked me to marry him. After I laughed my ass off, he repeated the question, and I said yes. And we both promptly said "Eeeeewwww."
Which I think just proves how unsuited for anyone else we both are.
No, I haven't told anyone else in my family yet.
I'm still working up to that point. But that would mean I would have to say it out loud... I'm working on it.